Men living with ADHD urged to ‘start the conversation’ at event tackling stigma and late diagnosis

For many men, ADHD can go unrecognised for years, leaving them struggling with work, relationships, confidence and mental health without fully understanding why.

A major event in Belfast this week aims to change that by opening up a conversation that organisers say has been overlooked for far too long.

Men & ADHD: Let’s Start the Conversation will bring together clinicians, mental health professionals and men with lived experience for an evening focused on understanding ADHD, breaking stigma and helping people access support.

The event takes place at Fisherwick Presbyterian Church in Belfast on Wednesday, June 17, from 6.30pm to 8pm.

Unlike traditional clinical conferences, organisers say the evening is designed to be accessible, honest and practical, creating space for open discussion about the realities of living with ADHD as a man.

A condition many men reach adulthood before recognising

One of the key themes of the event is the growing number of men receiving ADHD diagnoses later in life after years of struggling without answers.

For some, symptoms may have been misunderstood during childhood. Others may have developed coping strategies that masked difficulties until increasing pressures in adulthood made them harder to manage.

Challenges can include concentration difficulties, impulsivity, emotional regulation issues, organisation problems, anxiety, low self-esteem and burnout.

The event will explore not only the clinical understanding of ADHD but also the personal impact it can have on daily life, careers, family relationships and mental wellbeing.

Experts and lived experience speakers sharing the stage

A diverse panel of speakers has been assembled to provide both professional insight and first-hand perspectives.

Speakers include:

• Dr Chris Walsh – Consultant Psychiatrist

• Dr Matt McConkey – ADHD Consultant

• William Wilson – Solicitor and Mental Health Champion

• John Devlin – Local comedian sharing lived experience

• Johnny Breen – Mental Health Nurse with lived experience

• David Chesney – Lived experience speaker

Organisers hope the mix of clinical expertise and personal stories will help attendees better understand ADHD while also reassuring those who may feel isolated by their experiences.

No diagnosis required to attend

One of the strongest messages behind the event is that people do not need a formal diagnosis to take part.

The evening is open to males aged 17 and over, but family members, supporters, carers and professionals are also encouraged to attend.

That means the event is aimed not only at those already diagnosed with ADHD but also people who may be questioning whether ADHD could explain difficulties they have experienced throughout their lives.

For partners, parents and friends, it also offers an opportunity to gain a deeper understanding of the condition and the challenges that can come with it.

Breaking down stigma through conversation

Mental health advocates involved in the event believe public understanding of ADHD has improved significantly in recent years, but misconceptions remain, particularly around how the condition presents in adults.

Men can be especially reluctant to seek help or discuss their experiences, meaning many continue to struggle in silence.

By bringing together healthcare professionals and people willing to share their personal journeys, organisers hope to create a supportive environment where honest conversations can happen and where attendees leave feeling better informed and less alone.

The event’s message is summed up in its slogan: “Real stories. Expert insight. Stronger together.”

How to attend

Men & ADHD: Let’s Start the Conversation takes place on Wednesday, June 17, from 6.30pm until 8pm at Fisherwick Presbyterian Church, Belfast.

The event is open to males aged 17 and over, with family members, supporters and professionals also welcome to attend.

Tickets can be booked online at:

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Alternatively, attendees can also pay at the door.

As awareness of ADHD continues to grow across Northern Ireland, organisers hope the event will encourage more men to seek understanding, support and answers — and to realise they do not have to navigate the journey alone.